*scheduled post

so,
it was fadzli's and my 3rd anniversary.
36 months.

to some, maybe this is a short time.
but to those who knew the real story of our journey to get to this 3years would understand why we treasure this rship of ours so much.

& i am sharing our story. some may have known a bit of the story but never 100%. maybe about 10% to 15% of the story.
but today, to commemorate our 3rd anniversary (cheh... to commemorate ke perr..), i am sharing about 80% of the story. =)
but it will be divided into different parts. because it is too long. haha.

not exactly a romance novel material, i guess.

how we met...
we met in alamak chat, sometime in july 2006.
yes, out of all places.
that particular chatroom where many guys are preying for naive & stupid girls and some girls who readily give themselves to these guys.
and amongst these people, we found each other.

we continued chatting on msn.
talking crap, i think. & never did it crossed my mind to ask him of his status and job and whatever.
because at that point of time, i didnt think it was relevant at all for our friendship which was forged on the virtual world. something which we both guessed wont be ventured into the real world.
and even though from the virtual world, we took a step further in terms of friendship to being in contact on the phone, i still dont think those information about him was important for me to know.
he, on the other hand, had knew by now information about me; my status, my workplace, my designation, my home, etc & most importantly my full name.

that was until a few days into october.

i asked for his help to drive me to jalan besar stadium because i had to go there for work purpose. & i have no idea where in the sunny island of singapore was that place. but i had to at the last minute to back out from the favor i asked for because i went with my nephew and a volunteer of mine.

but on the 14th of october 2006, i asked for another favor from him.
to send me to toa payoh after my event at singapore post. to deliver brownies ordered by my ex for his gf's birthday. or something like that.
so basically, that was the first time we are going to meet. & still i dont think it'd be relevant to find out information about him.
because i assumed that the meeting we are going to have would be a one-off thing. and won't be repeated.

it was prior to the meeting, he sent me a message asking me to ask him about his status.
which i did.
and he told me his status.
he's seperated from his wife and in the midst of a divorce proceeding. & he has 2kids from his marriage.
and being an open-minded person i am, i was like, "ok. nothing wrong being friends with a divorcee what. friends je pe."
plus at that point of time, i needed a ride to toa payoh from paya lebar.
simply said, i asked to meet because i needed transport.

& so,
we met.

i didnt really gave a good impression during our first meeting. haha.
why?

in the next entry. =)

xoxo.

Labels: fadzli, love, lovestory, the bf